Relationship will sometimes fail, and no matter how hard you try to make it work, your efforts become so futile. It might be a date or a relationship where you just tried so hard to make it work but there is no spark to rekindle. So what do you do to let off the other party easy without a fight?
Don’t say anything
How about avoiding the awkward conversation and pray that the other party knows how to read signs. “As a wise man once said, never miss a good chance to shut up.”- Will Rogers.
Make it polite, quick and easy
After the first date, write a brief email saying: “I had fun last night but I just dint feel the chemistry. I wish you all the best in your search for the lucky one.” Hit him or her with a reality check. You can fake a lot of things but a relationship isn’t one.
Don’t point out the wrongs
Especially if the one you are trying to let go off is a woman. It is important to respect the other person. Telling them what is wrong on a first date can lower their esteem and confidence. Yes, honesty is the best policy but in this case; just leave that for their best friends to do. You don’t want to be that guy.
Fact is everyone has or will be blown away at some point, especially on a first date. Most of them don’t turn into second dates. Not because either did something wrong. It’s just because you did not feel the chemistry. You no longer have to struggle how to let them go. Use these tips and leave the other party feeling okay although they have been blown off.
By Louisa Nungari
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