YOU’VE just been dumped.
We know it feels terrible. We know the two of you were totally supposed to be together and be a perfect couple more of a Will Smith and Jaden Picket relationship with the perfect kids.
But that’s really no excuse for you to lose every last inhibition and shred of common sense over a small thing your breakup.
1. LISTENING TO SAD MUSIC
You want to curl up in bed and listen to songs with names like “Heartbreak”, “Love Lost” and “We Were In Love “even worse at this point avoid listening to Adele she always has something to say about every breakup she goes through.. Fight that urge. You’ll depress yourself and irritate everyone else. Try to stick with something upbeat like Bruno Mars his latest hits are funky and will get you back to the right moods.
2. CALLING YOUR RELATIONSHIP “COMPLICATED”
It’s not complicated. You’d like to think it’s complicated, because that would give you some remote chance of patching things up. In the real world, your relationship status is set firmly to “single”. Ladies let’s stop sugar coating this its complicated phrase we always use when we break up with our not so perfect men.
3. STALKING THEM ON FACEBOOK
While we’re using terms like “relationship status”, let’s talk about Facebook. Stay away from your ex’s profile. Don’t look at their photos. Don’t do a background check on every member of the opposite sex who posts on their wall, because that’s creepy as hell. Don’t ask his family how he is, where he goes or who his seeing. GET OVER HIM HIS NOT YOURS ANYMORE.
4. “ACCIDENTALLY” TEXTING THEM
“Oops, sorry, sent that to the wrong person. So … how are you?” Never send this text. It is the most transparently desperate thing you could possibly do to seek his attention, he definitely knows you want him back just get over with it and at least try and delete his contacts if you want to avoid such temptations.
5. MOANING TO EVERYONE
It’s not that your friends don’t care about your anguish. It’s that you’ve been telling them about it for the last three weeks, and there are only so many times they can nod and coo sympathetically. You’re allowed to be sad, but most people have limits.it even goes to the extent of having your breakup posted on social media re tweeting, tagging a friend or posting a picture of yourself #ItsOver.The truth is nobody cares.
6. BOTHERING ANOTHER EX
The most selfish thing you can do when someone dumps you is to go crawling back to someone you yourself dumped. They’ve gone through the hard slog, they’re finally over you and then you try to reel them back in because you’re feeling a bit lonely. Wake up to yourself, we all have those moments of wanting to call our ex he/she became an ex for a reason that you got over them now try getting over your current ex.
Story by; Juliana Wangari.
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