Have you been wondering why you not as rich as that guy you see on TV. Are you always complaining to God about how life is unfair.
You so poor that you can even make ends meet. You cant even afford airtime that exeeds 50 bob. You don’t even have a girlfriend because you cant afford to spoil her. “Life is not easy”, is your mantra. You dont know what good life is and you are always pointing a finger to the government.
Do you know you can change that with some few adjustments on your life and attitude towards life. Probably there some thing you are not doing right.
A rich guy does is not rich by luck. there is something he is doing and you are not. Here’s how one rich guy may live his day versus a poor guy, and what the poor guy can learn. (Note: we don’t mean to disparage the poor guy here, just his bad habits).
- 44% of the rich wake up three hours before work starts vs. 3% of poor
The stars are still out. The rich guy wakes up, even as our poor guy enjoys a good snooze. Although both our rich and poor guys know time is money, the rich guy has probably experienced the cliché. Every day is another day to earn more, like get a new client for more sales or think of new ideas to expand the business.
On the other hand, our poor guy sees today as just another day of working from eight to five. He’s likely to earn the same paycheck, so his mind tells him that the only thing he’ll lose if he wakes up earlier than needed is sleep.
#2: Daily goal-setting
- 80% of the rich are focused on accomplishing a single goal vs. 12% of the poor
- 81% of the rich maintain a to-do list vs. 19% of the poor
Between coffee sips and spoons of oatmeal, thoughts are already racing in the mind of our rich guy how to close the day’s deal, or the steps to accomplish that. He doesn’t think how long he should work today; he thinks what needs to be done to call it a day. He probably already knows the tasks ahead, having listed them on his smartphone calendar yesterday. He’s just getting into the day’s groove.
Meantime, our poor guy is still fast asleep. In his dream, our poor guy waits for the day to get a career break. If he really wants the opportunity, he should take daily steps towards the goal. For example, if finishing 10 tasks instead of 8 in a week will give him a pat on the back by the boss, he should be thinking how much he needs to accomplish every day.
It’s a truism: if you don’t take the little steps towards your goal, there’s no way you’ll reach it.
#3: Continuous education
- 63% of the rich listen to audio books while commuting to work
- 86% of the rich believe in lifelong educational self-improvement
- 88% of the rich read 30 minutes or more each day for education or career reasons
Our poor guy wakes up and hurries to dress up. He’s got thirty minutes before work starts so he skips breakfast and races out of the door.
Our rich guy, meanwhile, is already driving on the interstate while listening to TED Talk. He’s heard and seen many of these motivational speeches, but, occasionally, he likes to be reminded of Malcolm Gladwell’s insights. He though he can use them in his sales call later.
In fact, our rich guy knows that to stay competitive, he needs to keep on learning. It need not be a post-graduate, self-help learning tools are just as valuable (maybe even more), because they arm him with tools that he can apply at work at once.
If you want to advance your career, get into the habit of learning new things regularly, such as negotiating skills, sales pitch tactics.
- 79% of the rich network five hours or more each month vs. 16% of poor
At the office, our rich guy makes his first call to give a guy he met at his weekend dive group a happy birthday. He sounds like procrastinating, but in reality, he’s establishing rapport with the guy, who’s handling logistics for a multinational firm. In fact, the rich guy doesn’t really like diving (he loves climbing more!), but he knows diving, a function of disposable income, often consists of like-minded people who, give or take, are well-entrenched in high-profile corporate positions. He’s got a networking agenda that may come handy one day.
While our rich guy goes to work, our poor guy makes it to the office door just in time. Sweating and haggard, he doesn’t have time to collect himself and dive at once to his desk to finish the day’s tasks. He’s got no time to go out and meet colleagues or have small talk in conferences. They’ll only eat up time that he needs to finish his reports. He’s boxed in his small cubicle.
In truth, career or business building is a good mix of your personal and professional lives. Always take the time to meet and establish a network with people who can help you advance your plans, if not today, then in the future.
#5: Healthy living
- 70% of the rich eat less than 300 junk food calories per day vs. 97% of poor people eat more than 300 junk food calories per day
- 76% of the rich exercise aerobically four days a week vs. 23% of poor
Although it’s not directly established, a healthy mind and body is more attuned to success. You can think more clearly and, conversely, sickness prevents you from accomplishing anything.
Our rich guy goes to the gym after work. He knows the exclusive club can make him fit and also presents networking opportunities. It’s a value proposition that makes membership fees worth the cost. He also makes sure to eat right to justify his gym subscription.
On the other hand, our poor guy is still busy rushing reports. He has no time for such “urban lifestyle trends,” and that’s exactly how he sees aerobics, yoga and group exercises.
In fact, at the start of our day, our poor guy is already set for failure: he skipped breakfast; while our rich guy had high-fiber oatmeal. Researchers at the University of Pennsylvania found that having a regular healthy breakfast can result in higher I.Q. scores.
Your mother is right after all; eat your breakfast.
#6: Read more often than you watch TV
- Only 23% of the rich gamble vs. 52% of poor people gamble
- Only 6% of the rich watch reality TV vs. 78% of poor
- 86% of the rich love to read vs. 26% of poor
It’s been a tiring day for both our rich and poor guys. Just before sleeping, the rich guy takes a book from his study and reads to unwind. Meanwhile, our poor guy clicks on the TV to follow American Idol’s nth season.
Eleanor Roosevelt once said that great minds talk about ideas while small minds discuss about other people. Well, our rich guy sees reality TV as someone else’s life, so he’d rather read a nice book that gives him more insight into life. Books give him ideas, inspire him, or open him to new experiences like the tipping point concept or who moved the cheese, really. All the while our poor guy empathizes with an Idol contestant, even knowing the guy went to Japan last month to meet his estranged father as a kind of good luck audition sendoff. What of it, really, only our poor guy knows.
The TV needs a rest and you should try reading books for a change.
These habits are not set in stone, nor do they guarantee success. But adapting them to your daily routine won’t hurt. In fact, they can only improve your chances of hitting success one day. Yes, you owe it to yourself.