We’ve all been there; sitting in bed late at night planning and plotting about how to get Mr Hottie’s attention, and how to keep it. But the burning question on everyone’s lips is how do we know that we’re catching our dream bae’s attention? In order to help all of you out there who are desperately trying to catch their crush’s attention like me, we’ve decided these are the 14 things that all guys do when they’re legit into you…
1. He’ll take the initiative and make plans with you.
No matter how busy a guy is, if he really wants to see you, he will make time for you, and don’t forget it girl!
2. He’ll remember your interests and act on them.
Did you mention your favourite perfume? Tell him about your favourite restaurant? A guy who is into you will hang on your every word and will pay attention to the little details… #spoiltrotten
No one likes a jealous guy, but if he shows a healthy amount of interest when you talk to/are with another guy, then that’s a good sign.
5. He keeps the conversation going.
There is nothing more annoying than texting someone who takes hours to respond. And, to make matters worse, when he actually does, it’s usually something lame and blunt. You know he really likes you when he holds a conversation. If he can’t, he’s probably not going to hold your interest anyway. You’re fab girl, and you deserve a guy who’s mad about you…
6. He commits to the future.
Buying tickets to a concert next month, or inviting you to a friend’s birthday party, are his sneaky cute ways of telling you he wants to keep you around. AW!!!
7. He fights with you.
We’re not talking about all-out arguments, but if someone doesn’t push back on your opinions or challenge you at all, it’s usually because he doesn’t care enough about the relationship. You don’t wanna be bored in your relationship, so remember, a challenge is always good.
8. He asks about your day.
When a guy is into you he wants to know what’s going on in your life; he’ll listen with genuine interest because he finds every aspect of you fascinating, and will want to be kept in the loop.
9. He’s respectful of your time.
He doesn’t stand you up, he’s never late and he doesn’t ask you out as a last resort. You’re a priority.
10. He tries to make a good impression.
If the guy you’re seeing never puts any effort at all into looking smart when you’re around, then we hate to break it to you honey, but he’s probably not that bothered. If a guy likes you then the chances are he’ll put a bit more effort into himself when he’s around you – he knows this will make him more attractive to you.
11. He hints at a second date before leaving the first.
When a guy is into you, you’ll know it. He won’t want to want to risk someone else snatching you up.
12. He tells you how “beautiful you look.”
He’s not shy about expressing how much he really likes you. He’ll also go to incredible lengths to be around you, (i.e. cancel plans he already has just to see your stunning face).
13. He gives you the remote when you’re over at his place, and he lets you pick the movie when you’re going to the cinema.
This is major.
14. And lastly, he holds your hand in public, opens the door for you, and does everything a true gentleman should.